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Synagogue Life Committee .

The Synagogue Life Committee provides special services and programming to the Beth El community.

Past and current ongoing programs and projects include the Beth El Member Photo Directory, Organizing of Chavurot, Holiday Meal coordination, High Holiday Community Card, Sukkah Open House tour and the Torat Z’kenim/Torah of the Elders.

Upcoming programs (click for details):

 

 

 




Torat Z’kenim/Torah of the Elders: A Purpose and A Program

Purpose: Torat Z’kenim/Torah of the Elders

In his work, The Force of Character, James Hillman makes a claim on behalf of old age.  There is a reason why we live so far beyond our capacity to reproduce, past the height of our physical powers—in short, past “usefulness”.  Old age is the time for the presentation of character.  We do not develop character in the sense of creating something new.  Rather, we lay bare that character that is “etched” (the Greek word for “character” means “etched”) into us from the very beginning.

It is how we think about our lives that is important:  “… we need imaginative ideas that can grace aging and speak to it with the intelligence that it deserves.” (p.xiii).  We need to make a metaphor of biology.  The making of metaphor—better, the summoning of metaphor is a function of soul for Hillman.  Meaning making and soul making are the overlapping activities that characterize our most reflective postures, our most insightful moments.

Soul functions at its highest and best, Hillman teaches elsewhere, against a backdrop of mortality.  Is it possible that the old or, the old souls, or, those with shortened life expectancies have a greater capacity for soul making?  Is it possible that the old among us—by virtue of their steady presence among us—are the lightning rods that draws down soul meaning among us?  How can we fail to realize that Torat Z’kenim, the Torah of our elders is a treasure not to be overlooked?

The two rabbinic texts that follow point us towards the special importance of Torat Z’kenim/Torah of the Elders:

If there are no little ones then there are no grown-ups.  If there are no grown-ups there are no students.  If there are no students there are no sages.  If there are no sages there are no elders.  If there are no elders there is no Torah…  ( Im einn z’keinim, ein Torah)

(Esther Rabbah Petihta #11)

When the Blessed Holy One revealed himself on Mt. Sinai to give the Torah to Israel He appeared to them as none other than an elder.  What is the reasoning behind this?  It is written,  “In the elderly resides wisdom and discernment in the long-lived” (Job 12:12).

(Pesikta Rabbati 21:4)

If there are no sages there are no elders.  If there are no elders/z’keinim there is no Torah.   In the developmental stages of living and learning,  elders take their place after the sages.  Certainly, the sages are the custodians of Torah!  What is the critical difference between the Torah of the sages and the Torah of the elders?  Perhaps we could say that the Torah of the elders is the lived, enacted, embodied Torah that requires transmission through the seasoned and experienced among us.  The Torah of the Elders/Torat Z’keinim, is a Torah of long-lived presence; a Torah of witness, of continuity, of lasting:  “In the elderly resides wisdom; and discernment in the long-lived”.   That is to say, her very presence embodies the wisdom of traditions.  His life teaches of endurance, of constancy in good times and in bad.  They, in the years that stretch beyond rearing and “careering,” reveal a most important a Torah: Career is not a life’s work.  Life is a life’s work.

We need elders and their Torah,  heroes of aging because actuarial tables, insurance company and health club indices inform but do not inspire us; they speak of restrictions and say nothing of expansiveness.  They warn but do not warm us concerning the life that might be ours if we are fortunate enough to live long enough.

James Hillman, in The Force of Character, points out that “elder/old” means “nourished”.  It is to this state of being that we aspire, against which we measure ourselves throughout life:  “How old is the baby?”   How much “oldness,” how much world nourishment is in this one?  We need elders, “nourished ones” whose lives nourish the community.  Without them there is no hope for a future generation of elders.  Regardless of how many sages we have, without the elders there is a lack of Torah.

Program:

Torat Z’kenim is a project to shape community around the elders in our midst.  We hope to draw together those eager to learn the particular skills, insights, stories and wisdom of our elders.

We plan to consult with elders of our community in order to find the particular Torah that she, or he, has to offer to the community.  We then construct a program best suited to the teaching of that Torah.  Often an event may involve a special circle of “youngers” who share the same interest, skill, etc.  In this way, we hope to bridge generations, honor a Torah that can best be taught by living it.  We hope to give our elders their rightful place as leaders and teachers among us.

RECENT PAST PROGRAMS:

We honored long-time member,
Monice Arnold (Z"L),
on Sunday, November 6, 2011

Monice Arnold was a resident of Durham for over 60 years.  She discussed her affiliation with Beth El and shared interesting stories about her decades in the community. 

Thank you to everyone who attended!

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The fourth installment of our Torah of the Elders/Torat Z'kenim program honored longtime Beth El member
Dr. Albrecht Strauss on October 31, 2010

The program included a pre-filmed video presentation available on the Jewish Sparks website: http://www.jewishsparks.net/Albrecht%20Strauss/Strauss-Index.htm

Dr. Strauss, Emeritus Professor of English Literature at
UNC-CH, shared interesting stories from his life,
beginning with pre-WWII Berlin; through his teenage years in
England; his coming to America; college, military, and
profesional life; and other observations from his five
decades in Chapel Hill.

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We honored longtime Beth El member
Sidney David Markman (Z"L) on May 31, 2007.
An archeologist and architectural historian, Dr. Markman showed slides of Spain's vanquished Jewish community, and shared stories of his life in the Old World and the New — his forays into Central America and his lifelong commitment to Judaism.

 

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February 5, 2012

10:15am-12:15pm
Beth El Freedman Center Lounge

Bereshit Story Discussion

The Synagogue Life Committee will host this guided discussion led by Lenora Ucko, Executive Director of StoriesWork. She will lead participants in discussion of a few Bereshit stories (the first book of the Torah) from Louis Ginzberg's Legends of the Jews (a collection of stories about biblical characters).  We'll look at the Jewish characters and their actions within a modern context.

Light refreshments will be served.

  There is no charge to attend, however please note that child care for this event required advance registration.

Legends of the Jews:
www.sacred-texts.com/jud/loj/index.htm

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Join your fellow congregants for an evening at the ballpark!
Wednesday, May 16, 7:05pm

Respond now if interested!

The Synagogue Life Committee has reserved a block of seats for a Durham Bulls game against Pawtucket (the Red Sox farm team) on Wednesday, May 16. The game starts at 7:05pm.

Tickets are $8.00 apiece. This is a great way for Beth El members to enjoy each other's company in a different milieu,and it is entertainment for both baseball aficionados and the whole family. We'd like to have a large turnout.

Your early response is appreciated, as a minimum of 20 is required for a group purchase. This block can be expanded if by February 10 more than that number have already committed to join the group. E-mail Richard Cramer (mrcramer@email.unc.edu).

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Srugim!
“The most popular T.V. pop show in Israel” is coming to Durham! Watch the show on a big screen in Hebrew with English subtitles. This show is about young professionals, work, friendship, dating, being religious and being rebellious, providing a glimpse into Israeli life for one segment of the population. The T.V. show that started in 2008 has received positive reviews from both the religious and secular communities. We will provide an introduction to the characters, some background for the show and munchies. There will be an opportunity to ask questions about life in Israel. Childcare available with advance registration (miriam@betheldurham.org).

February 11, 2012
Havdalah at 6:45pm, followed by viewing.

May (tbd), 2012